Realistic Resolution #30:
"I will reward my child for good behavior"

Do you put as much thought, effort, and energy into praising your child's acceptable behavior as you do in providing consequences for his negative behavior? If not, think about reversing that equation, and being most entirely present and engaged when your child's not screwing up. These items from the Parenting Special Needs site will give you some ideas on how and why to accentuate the positive.
How-To: Making Behavior Charts Work
Book Review: Transforming the Difficult Child: The Nurtured Heart Approach
Article: 31 Ways to Tell Your Child "I Love You"
Round-Up: Top 5 Ways to Boost Your Child's Self-Esteem
Article: Keep a Big "Bag of Tricks"
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