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By Terri Mauro, About.com Guide to Special Children since 2004

Making the Best of Thanksgiving

Tuesday November 25, 2008

I can remember a time when I looked forward with excitement to Thanksgiving Day. Maybe back in the days when my mother did all the work, and I just enjoyed seeing cousins. Maybe when I was newly married, and got a chance to finally use all that wedding china. Maybe when my kids were newly adopted, and we could finally do things as a completed family. Maybe. There's always been a downside of disruption to the day, all the more so when it became clear that my kids' special needs weren't going to make big busy family get-togethers easy.

Strange foods, strange clothes, strange households, strange people in familiar places -- all those things can drive kids with sensory sensitivities and dietary restrictions and rigid patterns of expectation into a tizzy. Their parents, too. What should be a relaxing day of gratitude and family warmth is often one for tantrums and tears and disappointments all around.

Wish I had a magic wand I could pass through the computer screen to make things better. Bippity boppity boo, you'd have a house full of calm kids, thoughtful relations, safe edibles, and a maid to clean up after. If only. Unfortunately, there's probably nothing for it but to prepare more, expect less, and keep a sense of humor. Though there's no secret wizard formula hidden in them, these articles can help.

Restricted-Diet Dinner Safer Sweets Dressing for the Day Stressful Situations Salvage the Day

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