The following inspirational and humorous books have been reviewed for the Harried Parent's Book Club. They are sorted by Guide Rating, with five stars being best.
1. A Smile as Big as the Moon
The book cover calls this "a triumphant story of the power of the human spirit," and that's certainly true. It's also a story of the power of one teacher who had an impossible idea and made it happen. There are plenty of books that focus on the battles parents fight for their children, and they're worth celebrating. But let's hear it, too, for the special education teachers who work small miracles, unsung. In author Mike Kersjes' case, the miracle's as big as the moon. 4.5 Stars
2. Anything But a Dog!
For any family, finding a pet that fits can be an adventure, and many's the parent who's been leery of adding a dog to the family chaos. But when one of your kids is nonverbal and immobile, unable to protest if a dog is being aggressive or push it away, the concerns skyrocket. Lisa Saunders shares the odyssey her family went through -- via hamster and rabbit and ant farm and cat and inappropriate puppy -- to find the kind of canine companion parents dream of. 4 Stars
3. Building a Joyful Life With Your Child Who Has Special Needs
You may have read books and completed questionnaires and written essays about how your child experiences things and what he or she needs to be happy and content. But when's the last time you figured those things out about yourself? This handy workbook is all about doing just that. Get a pencil. 4 Stars
4. Chicken Soup for the Soul: Children With Special Needs
If you've ever read a Chicken Soup book, you know what's waiting for you here -- close to 100 stories, each just two or three pages long, telling tales to warm your heart. In this volume, the stories are about children with special needs, and indeed, they are an inspiring bunch. Even if you're usually unmoved by Chicken Soup stories, you may find some tears brewing here. Let them fall. It feels good. 4 Stars
5. I Just Am
If you're looking for a book to explain Down syndrome to children or teens -- anyone, really, who responds to photos and captions better than long detailed text -- I Just Am is an excellent choice. Through photos and good-humored captions, Bryan Lambke tells about his life as a person with Down syndrome, and a person with two jobs, and a person with two girlfriends, and a person who loves nachos and pizza, and asks "If this isn't 'normal,' what is?" 4 Stars
6. The Power of the Powerless
In all the coverage and opinion pieces published around the death of Terri Schindler Schiavo, one that particularly caught my eye was an essay by Christopher de Vinck about his brother, Oliver, who despite being in a vegetative state his entire life was nonetheless an inspiration to his family, as were the parents who cared for him lovingly and without hesitation. 4 Stars
7. The Short List
On a 35,000 round-trip across the U.S. in one of those stubby special-ed buses, Mooney meets people who vary from society's ideal of "normal" in various ways, from a deaf-blind child in Virginia to a transgendered artist in Maine to a young woman with Down syndrome in Ohio -- all of whom have in common difficult school experiences, and more comfort in their own skins than Mooney's been able to muster. If you've wondered where your child fits in the world, the lessons the author learns here may benefit you and yours as well. 4 Stars
8. Waiting With Gabriel: A Story of Cherishing a Baby's Brief Life
When Amy Kuebelbeck was 5-1/2 months pregnant, the child she was carrying was diagnosed with hypoplastic left heart syndrome, a condition in which the left side of the heart does not develop. This moving memoir tells of the choices she and her husband made to spare their child painful medical procedures and to celebrate the life he had, however brief. 4 Stars
9. Blue Sky July
"When I hold it in my hands, I still remember the time the world seemed upside down to me, and it was a meditation, a kind of therapy." That's how Welsh writer Wyn describes this book, a chronical of the first seven years in the life of her son, Joe, who has severe cerebral palsy but nowhere near the gloom-and-doom life that was predicted for him. If you still remember those upside-down times or are going through them still, it may represent a comforting meditation for you as well. 3.5 Stars
10. Count Us In: Growing Up With Down Syndrome
The cover explains: "At ages 19 and 22, respectively, Jason Kingsley and Mitchell Levitz shared their innermost thoughts, feelings, hopes, and dreams, their lifelong friendship, and their experiences growing up with Down syndrome." The dialogues that make up this book took place from 1990-1993, and were originally published in 1994. The book has now been re-issued with an afterword updating readers on a dozen years of adulthood for its authors. They're enjoyable company, and have interesting insights into DS life, and life in general. 3.5 Stars











