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![]() Cover image courtesy of PriceGrabber Book Review: The Power of the PowerlessGuide Rating - ![]() The Bottom LineBy Christopher de Vinck; 151 pages. Subtitle: A Brother's Legacy of Love In all the coverage and opinion pieces published around the death of Terri Schindler Schiavo, one that particularly caught my eye was an essay by Christopher de Vinck about his brother, Oliver, who despite being in a vegetative state his entire life was nonetheless an inspiration to his family, as were the parents who cared for him lovingly and without hesitation. Pros
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Guide Review - Book Review: The Power of the PowerlessThe Power of the Powerless grew out of an essay that received wide publication in the 80s. It made the papers again during the recent debate over euthanasia and persistent vegetative states. The book expands on the story of de Vincks brother Oliver, who lived to the age of 33 without ever being able to see, hear, move or interact, but inspired in those who knew or heard of him an appreciation for the value of all life. Along with Olivers story, de Vinck shares the stories of those who wrote to him in the aftermath of his articles original publication. We read letters of praise from all over, and more detailed, first-person tales from the fathers of a child who died shortly after birth, a child with severe brain damage, and a child with Down syndrome. All share the sentiment that these childrens lives had or have special meaning, not in spite of their disabilities but in large measure because of them. And thats nice to read these days, when lives marked by suffering are considered unliveable. Reading of the unflagging care Olivers parents gave him can only be inspirational to those of us parenting challenged children now. Yet its hard not to notice that for all its championing of the disabled, this book doesnt treat them as individuals so much as empty boxes in which the able-bodied can admire their own perceptions, insights and efforts at nobility. If that makes you uneasy, you may want to read this book in small installments. |
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