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Weekday Reflections

October 2009

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Every weekday, Monday through Friday, the About.com Parenting Special Needs site offers an opportunity to read, reflect, and respond to a passage from a book, blog, or article. Here are the entries for October 2009. Read the quote, then follow the link for questions and response suggestions.

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Thursday, October 1: Me Time

Read: "Cancelling appointments or plans gives you an hour or two to "get things done." But over time, it becomes a pattern of neglecting your own health and well being -- a pattern that's all too common among parents of children with special needs." -- Joan Celebi, from the post "Stop Cancelling On Yourself!" on the blog SpecialNeedsParentCoach.com

Friday, October 2: Bullying

Read: "We are at a point where racially motivated attacks are properly recognised and widely reported, yet assaults and bullying directed at a person with a disability is merely perceived as 'anti-social behaviour.'" -- Tim Rushby-Smith, in the article "Why More Children's Books Should Feature Disabled Characters" on TimesOnline

Monday, October 5: Learning

Read: "I think that most teachers think that a parent's job is to get their child ready to go to kindergarten and then to make sure that they do their homework. Well, parents do much more to help children learn and succeed in school, believe me. They set the scene for learning to happen. Without their support children will never reach their full learning potential." -- Dr. Patricia Porter, from the post "Are you an Edu-Parent?" on the blog Leading to Learning

Tuesday, October 6: Squeaky Wheel

Read: "In these times, it's no longer OK to be mere champions for our kids--we need to be superheroes. We are not just the squeaky wheel that gets oiled--we are the VERY LOUD wheel. We are not just pushy--we are steamrollers." -- Ellen, in the post "Outrage of the Month" on the blog To the Max

Wednesday, October 7: Problem-Solving

Read: "I've used a wheelchair for most of my life, and I would argue that people with disabilities are in fact better equipped for acute problem-solving than their peers without disabilities. That's mainly because we're experts in finding creative ways to perform tasks that others may take for granted." -- Ralph Braun, CEO of BraunAbility, in the article "Disabled Workers: Employer Fears Are Groundless" on BusinessWeek.com

Thursday, October 8: Advocacy

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Read: "Sometimes I just wish my parents weren't so BUSY! They go to meetings. And then they go to more meetings. They talk on the phone to people. And then they talk with more people. They write letters. They write email. They send faxes. Then they talk on the phone some more! Sometimes they travel to other states and even other countries. Mom says this is called 'advocacy.'" -- Morasha R. Winokur, from My Invisible World: Life With My Brother, His Disability, and His Service Dog, this week's featured book.

Friday, October 9: School Abuse

Read: "We live in an age where order in school is a potent justification that can prevail over reason, rule and appropriate discipline. We deserve better and schools and prosecutors need to send a clear signal that students especially those with special needs will not be objects of verbal or physical abuse." -- Charles Fox, from the post "School Cop Beats Student With Special Ed Needs Caught on Tape" on the Special Education Law Blog

Monday, October 12: Giving

Read: "Focusing on what we give up is not nearly as satifsying as focusing on what we give." -- Father Paul Manning, St. Philip Church, Clifton, New Jersey

Tuesday, October 13: Being an Advocate

Read: "Being an advocate means partnering with others, building relationships and being aware of the underlying emotional obstacles everyone, including yourself, may have. It also means taking initiative, doing a large share of the work and showing your appreciation over and over." -- Vanessa, from the post "Advocate vs. Adversary" on the blog eSpecially Ben

Wednesday, October 14: Hero

Read: "I am no superman nor do I always triumph over adversity. I do not champion the lonely or bring riches to the unfortunate. I did not volunteer for this job I refer to as 'autism mom,' I was simply drafted." -- autismmom, from the post "I Am No Hero" on the blog Autisable

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