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Readers Respond: Tribute to Fathers of Children With Special Needs

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By , About.com Guide

From the article: Coupons for Special Dads
Do you know a father or grandfather of a child with special needs who deserves a tribute? Let everyone know what an inspiration they are by telling what's great about them here. Speak up for special fathers! Share Your Story

What a StepDad!!

So one day, this father steps up to the plate.. what a wonderful day it has been! I want to tell you about Neal who is a stepfather to my three adult children and their children. Neal is hearing impaired and has been through so much in this life with losing his mom and dad and finding his home on the street. Today Neal is the most caring, and loving father and husband, grandfather to our family. In spite of all that we have been through, he always is behind us all the way and endures so much strength. He is a very caring and loving, and compassionate father and is always there when one door closes and another door opens. His remarkable attitude keeps us ready for the next journey and we are so fortunate to have him as part of our family. He cares for my daughter, Brittany who has cerebral palsy and he accepts her with all of her challenges. He helps with her care and eager to learn as we go. He loves her and we are blessed to have him through each and every day.
—Guest Elaine S

Dad without hesitation

My husband is a biological, adoptive, and foster father. In each role, he is amazing. Most recently, our medically-fragile foster daughter had a severe seizure and she stopped breathing while we waited for the ambulance. My husband, my hero, began rescue breathing immediately and did not stop until the ambulance arrived. I was not surprised by his determination and perseverance, but it reminded me of his unending love and devotion for all of our children. He is an amazing, heroic father.
—Guest harris4kids

Doctor Dad

Statistics are many dads will retreat from their families during times of crisis for one reason or another. Our daughter changed him and after losing 2 jobs because of our daughters million dollars in bills. He became a role model for our children and others as he defied the odds to go from poverty, crisis and two years of under-graduate coursework, four years of medical school were supported by delivering newspapers to keep a roof over our heads. Doing what many said was impossible, he did it with grace, humility and our daughter by his side. He once told me how can he feel sorry for himself, when she is smiling through all the pain. Doctor Dad is now holding her tiny hands through the needle sticks, the pain and the tears of loneliness and sharing the joys of milestones. Not only did he stick with our family, but went on to adopt 5 siblings from foster care and raised them to adulthood. I write of this amazing man who stands out for his dedication to family.
—Annystribe

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